Appearance

As i wrote before in the other post, other people creats you.
I'm going to write about it today. How i think about human relationship.

i think 'yourself' (the iris) is shalted by a glass. Glass can be clear, or colored.

People think they are living their own life, they don't know they're wearing color glasses.

As i wrote before, everyone sees differently. Blue is not the same for all people. It can be other colors in cases.

So how can you appear?
use the glasses.

If someone says the apple is blue, even if its red you should say its blue. Because all colors are also depending on people. You have no control about it.

Who knows the apple is red or blue?

What i mean is to tell what they want to hear.
people have glasses, they don't listen to you.
When you tell them what they don't like to hear, they reconize that you say what they don't like. That's it. They are not interested in your opinion.

So what is the best way to keep a good relationship with other people?

You can use the same color of them. You should find which color they're having first. It seems pretty hard at the first time, but this is possible.

I'm not saying you have to throw away your opinion and just following them like a empty ghost.
You can still have your opinion, but you don't have to correct everything. Nothing can go perfect with people. You should give up on perfect in this case.

And who knows what the perfect is?
You are also a human..

What people want from you?
Maybe its smile, maybe its agreement, maybe its some nice meaningless words..

You don't have to seek for 'meanings' in conversations. Because there aren't any!

It seems pretty ridiculous, but it has a good side too.

You can be everything through the glasses!

If you treat them good, controlling the glasses well, they would like you.
Not only like you, they respect you and give you many precious experience.

Once you will be able to use the glasses well, your world will be much bigger. You have many colors under your control.
You see more that people do.

Perhaps you will get lost in colors. But i can't tell if its a good thing or not.

Because there seem not any 'real' in this world.